exploring life and love with pictures and words
1978 . . .In the very early hours on Friday of the Labor day weekend, I am approaching twenty-two long hours of labor. I am exhausted and somewhat delirious. The doctor examines me and sighs, "If you don't have this baby by 2:00, you're having a Cesarean." At 2:17 am, without surgery, my son arrives, all 9 pounds and 2 ounces. And just... Continue Reading →
I have an amazing memory. I remember details of appearance and setting, depth of emotion, and the impact and power of words exchanged. My long time girlfriends are both envious and terrified by this gift of mine. All I need is a small detail, a word, a picture in my head, and someone to say . . . Remember the time . . . Before... Continue Reading →
My favorite exercise and escape is walking on the beach. I run across the highway to the trail and am greeted by the sunset. I squint my eyes, take a deep breath and shake off the day. This is my peace. My body quickly finds its rhythm, its pace, and my legs lead the way, allowing my mind to wander.... Continue Reading →
I am sure it is difficult to say the words I've thought this through, played it out in my head. I've tried to imagine life with you forever . . . and I have reservations. . . It 's not going to work. I believe saying those words took courage. I do. I'll bet it's even harder to... Continue Reading →
Never let someone find you the same way that they left youPretend everything is going to be okay until it isThere is enough room in the world for everyone to be amazingBE bare naked in public as often as possible
I remember being twelve years old . . .smart, brave, funny, and having endless energy. I was always hungry and I ate a lot. When I looked in the mirror I liked what I saw, especially my long straight hair. I wore it like Cher and thought I looked like her. Some of my girlfriends... Continue Reading →
Bare Naked in Public 